How to Be a Couple: Sex, Love & Marriage

We love, love! In fact, we've both dedicated not only our careers to helping others find love, but more importantly, to creating loving relationships within our own marriages.

There are secrets to building a relationship of connection with one person, someone who is your safe harbor in the storm. In How to Be a Couple: Sex, Love & Marriage, we help you navigate the fragile first stages of your relationship and create true intimacy, passion, and connection with this one special person with whom you've decided to share your life! 

We love to hear how our book has helped your marriage or relationship!

What our readers have to say about our most recent book

How to Be a Couple

There are many reasons that I enjoyed this book, learned from it, and would highly recommend it. It is easy to read, and full of helpful information on improving relationships at every stage. It has information and ideas that you can implement immediately, and also ideas and suggested exercises that help continue to improve relationships over time. I also appreciated the positive tone of the book.

One of my favorite parts was the stories that the authors shared from their own experience, their journey to the healthy and happy relationships they have built over the years. This demonstrated to me that this was more than just theory that the authors studied; this was practical information that was used in their own path to growth and development. I could definitely relate to the stories, I liked the fresh perspective and the fact there there are two authors allowed for two different perspectives. For example, one of the authors shares her experience of how she and her husband decided to have children, and the other author shares her feelings on choosing not to have children.

Whether you are single and looking, trying to work through a challenging relationship or in a good one that you want to strengthen and maintain, this is a great resource!

Marriage Passion Project


Sheila Kreifels, LMFT


Teresa Lauer, LMHC